A
South African Success Story
Claire
Dunicz is a teacher in a South African township. She has
a remarkable story to tell. She presented her story to
the REAL Trust Conference last year. Her project was to
build the esteem of her class. She chose to use the BASICS
model from the ALPS Approach books. It has worked so well
that Claire won the National Teaching Award for Johannesburg.
This was quite remarkable as she only had 3 years’
professional teaching experience. She adds in her letter
to Alite, ‘I couldn't have done it without your
ideas and research’. This is her story in her words:
Imagine
that you are a teenager living in a South African township…
A
lot has changed in the ten years since the first democratic
elections. You can now go to a park, or swimming pool
or sports stadium without being arrested. You can now
ride any bus or go to any government hospital. You are
also allowed to attend any government school and receive
a quality education.
Unfortunately,
life at home is still filled with hardship. Like most
families in Soweto, your home is matrilineal. Your father
“disappeared” when you were still in nappies
and this has left you with a strong distrust of adult
authority figures. If you are a boy, you are left with
no male role models and if you are a girl, you dislike
and stereotype all men.
If
you are lucky, your mother is employed but she normally
works long hours and she is so tired when she gets home
that she doesn’t have the energy to listen to your
problems. She couldn’t help you with your homework,
even if she wanted to, because her parents took her out
of school when she was eight years old. In order to attract
her attention, you start breaking the rules and getting
into trouble.
If
you are unlucky, your mother is unemployed and you are
forced to rely on a string of abusive and unreliable boyfriends
who resent having to support “another man’s
child”. Your mother turns a blind eye to your pain
because “he puts a roof over our heads”. You
start to look for love and attention from criminal gangs
and they find their comfort in alcohol, drugs and sexual
promiscuity.
Despite
your best attempts to fit in with this crowd, you are
faced with disdain and contempt because you go to a suburban
school. They mock you and call you “coconut”
(black on the outside and white on the inside). The only
way that you can impress them is by acting tough and getting
arrested. If you are a girl, you will need fancy clothes
to fit in and the only way that you can get these things
is by having lots of older boyfriends who expect to be
“repaid for their generosity”. This results
in HIV/AIDS, teen pregnancies and suicidal behaviour.
School
is just another headache and you can’t wait for
it to end…
You
don’t have to live in South Africa to recognize
these. They are sitting in classrooms all over the world.
They are the angry who always look tired. They give up
too easily and say things like, “Why should I bother?
I don’t have any future anyway?” They feel
like life owes them for their suffering so they don’t
accept challenges and expect others to ”do it for
me”.
Normally,
they slip through the system but I have found a way of
assisting them by using the BASICS model.
In
order to change their aspirations, I decided to change
their identities in a safe environment where they could
experience a string of successes and achievements which
would boost their self esteem.
In
2004, I started an informal project where I allowed a
group of 15-16 year olds to do voluntary community service
in old age homes and orphanages. The results were extraordinary:
Self Esteem
Each
child that took part in the project reported an increase
in self esteem. These are some of the things that they
had to say:
“My
identity and self esteem has grown tremendously from
helping others” Melanie
“They give you so much unconditional love and
for me that has been a major confidence boost”
Nelisiwe
“For once, I felt like I was worth more than I
thought.” Refiloe
They also receive love and attention in a positive manner:
“It has boosted my self esteem because they [orphans]
would come every week just to listen to my story.”
Aliyah
“I know that when I go there, people appreciate
me for who I am” Noluthando.
Family
Relationships
Many
also reported that the community service improved their
relationships with their parents. Some parents now had
a reason to boast about them whereas prior to the project,
they only received complaints from the school. They said
the following:
“It made me realize that I am very lucky to have
family and friends that care” Thato
“I always doubted if my parents loved me enough
or if they thought I was a failure. Those orphans made
me realize that I must stop doubting the love that my
family has for me because some of those don’t
have that kind of love…” Nyiko
Educational
Opportunities
I
would often combine visits with comprehension and writing
exercises. Learners became more comfortable with people
who were different to them:
“Since then, we have been performing plays on
HIV/AIDS…the community service I’ve been
doing has broadened my mind. I used to think that street
were street deliberately” Yolanda
“ I dealt with a lot of mentally disabled and
that helped me to accept differences and see them and
treat them as normal human beings” Raeesa
“I
learnt to appreciate my elders and not to take them
for granted” Mpho
“It made me feel sorry for people who are disabled
and visually impaired. I now know how those people feel
because I tried putting myself in their shoes”
Mandla
Even
racial barriers were breached:
“ I found myself a white grandfather who has to
be the most exciting person besides me…” Gugu
Emotional
Intelligence
The
following reported that they had experienced emotionally
educational experiences:
“I realized that some people really have it hard
and my life and my problems are not that bad and it
also made me want to stop wallowing in self pity because
it wasn’t going to get me anywhere.” Bayanda
“Helping other people made me feel good…It
showed me that to get love, you have to give it.”
Ntokoza
“I have grown to be more compassionate and understanding
of other people’s situations…” Neo
Empowerment
A
lot of children now found that they had power over their
own lives and perceptions:
“I can seriously say I’ve stopped complaining
about how much I don’t have” Nompumelelo
“It is a really life changing experience that
not only gives you a reason to live each day but also
to appreciate the beauty of life. I never once thought
that giving someone a small twig with green leaves could
mean so much…” Thato
“When I had family problems, I realized that in
order to feel good about myself, I should try helping
others and it did help”. Yolanda
“I got more inspired to do well at school. They
reminded me to live my life to the fullest” Thato
Leadership
Development
Noluthando
Mose (15) went to a TV station and got them to do a program
on the crime in the area where she was doing community
service. Not only did they make the program, they also
got the community involved in a clean up operation and
Noluthando got a chance to speak to other teenagers on
TV.
Class
Ethos
The
project has completely rejuvenated the ethos of my class.
I no longer teach a group of troubled children but a future
generation of pediatricians, psychologists, occupational
therapists and community developers. Some of my most disruptive
children have become my chief fund raisers and they motivate
their peers to do good deeds instead of getting up to
mischief.
Kids
that give up very easily have started passionately challenging
each other to break charity records and their pride in
themselves is absolutely wonderful.
I
think that Whitney puts it best when she says:
“During
the recent months, I have gone on a journey of self
discovery. A journey that has been characterized by
growth, realization, and upliftment. Doing community
service has awakened my soul and led to a feeling of
inner peace and spiritual development. During my first
visit, there was a hint of anxiety but when I left,
I realized the enormity of the impact we had made in
their lives. What was more astounding, was the fact
that they had enriched our lives more than we could
ever impact theirs”
Pause
for thought
George
B Dantiz studied mathematics at the prestigious University
of California at Berkeley. Part of his studies included
a statistics class. One morning he arrived late for the
class. He frantically copied the two problems he saw on
the board, knowing that to miss homework was not going
to be a good move so early in the course. He found the
problems difficult and had to spend more time than he
would have liked struggling on them. At the next class
he handed them in.
What
he did not know was that they were not homework problems
but examples of unsolvable challenges which the lecturer
had been using to demonstrate the complexity and rigour
of statistics in the lecture that day. Dantiz had approached
the challenges in a completely different frame of mind
from his classmates. As a result of his efforts he quickly
became a celebrity.
Change
the beliefs and you change the performance. The story
forms the basis of the plot of the film Good Will Hunting.
Sticking
with it – coping strategies and resiliency
The
mental health of teenagers has sharply declined in the
UK in the last 25 years and the chances that 15 year olds
will have behavioural problems such as lying, stealing
and being disobedient have more than doubled.
(Time
Trends in Adolescent Mental Health, September 2004)
Resiliency
is a topic that has been heavily researched. What does
it tell us about children at risk?
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A
study conducted by Emmy E. Werner and Ruth Smith of
all youngsters born on the island of Kauai, Hawaii shortly
before their birth until they were 31 or 32 found that
even though many had been born into poverty, experienced
the breakup of their family, or watched a family member
die, they were able to overcome these problems and became
competent and caring adults. They succeeded because
they were resilient. On the other hand, some who had
no adversity in their lives gave up easily when faced
with problems. Werner and Smith found identifiable factors
which build resilience. Each can be developed, but the
process is best begun early.
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Making connections and being mentored. Resilient people
remember one or two adults who made a difference in
their lives. Werner’s research showed that being
emotionally connected with adults and people in communities
is a significant part of what allows nearly 70% of young
people in even the worst conditions to thrive.
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Responsibility. Looking out for the welfare of others
builds resilience. Children who are engaged in “required
helpfulness” are more resilient.
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Reading. Resilient children learn to read early. Werner
found that “effective reading skills by age eight
was one of the most potent predictors of successful
adult adaptation”
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Problem-solving and information skills. Resilient children
know how to find and use information to solve problems.
When faced with adversity, they will utilise a problem-solving
model to determine options for dealing with their problems.
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Social skills. “The chief determinant of a youngster’s
popularity during adolescence is his or her social skills”.
Popular children have more friends and are more confident.
They tend to be friendly, cheerful, good-natured, humorous,
and intelligent. On the other hand, unpopular children
are more likely to be low achievers in school, drop
out of high school, have learning disabilities, show
higher rates of delinquent behavior, and suffer from
emotional and mental health problems as adults.
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Hobbies and interests. Children who participate in hobbies
and activities feel more confident, competent, and positive
about themselves. Hobbies and activities bring children
in contact with more people and can provide solace during
times of stress and turmoil.
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Plans for the future. Resilient children have hope and
the capacity to set personal goals and behave in ways
to secure them.
Five
books to read on resilience:
Broooks
and Goldstein, The Power of Resilience, Contemporary Books
2003
Krovetz,
Martin L. Fostering Resiliency, Corwin Press, Inc., 1999.
Siebert,
Al, The Survivor Personality , Thorsons 1999
Steinberg,
Laurence. Adolescence. 6th ed. Boston: McGraw Hill, 2002.
Werner,and
Smith. Overcoming the Odds: High Risk from Birth to Adulthood,
Cornell University Press, 1992.
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starter ideas for role models for resilience
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Any full-time carer
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Any child who, from an early age and without ever wanting
to, has had to adopt the role of auxiliary parent
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Ellen MacArthur. Self-taught sailor of small physical
stature who holds world solo yachting records
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Ray Charles. Went blind at five shortly after watching
his brother drown, orphaned in his teens and went on
to become one of the world’s greatest musicians
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Ben Carson. Surgeon who specializes in separating co-joined
twins, brought up by his mother in relative poverty
in Boston
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Henri Charriere. Author of Papillon, survived a lifetime
of solitary confinement
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Nelson Mandela. Emerged from 26 years of imprisonment
to forgive his captors and lead his nation out of Apartheid.
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Ernest Shackleton. Polar explorer who conducted an epic
journey across over 600 miles of open sea to rescue
his crew
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Kelly Holmes. Spent all her athletic career bedeviled
by injury to eventually win double gold at the Athens
Olympics.
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Mary Seacole. A black nurse who went of her own volition
to the Crimea in a period of Britain’s history
when being a woman, black and a nurse was to have every
odd stacked against you.
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Jonas Salk. Pioneering discoverer of the Polio vaccine
who persisted until he perfected it
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Evelyn Glennie. International percussionist who went
deaf at 10 years of age.
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Victor Frankl. Survivor of various concentration camps
and author of a best selling book on survival.
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Helen Keller. Coped with profound disabilities to become
an inspirational figure for others
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Jo Simpson. Survived a fall in the Andes which broke
both his legs by crawling to safety.
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Maya Angelou. Best selling author, rejected by family
and publishers alike
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The Dalai Lama. Spiritual leader in exile, Buddhist
scholar
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Tanni Grey-Thompson. Paralympic gold medal winning athlete
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Muhammad Ali. Former world heavyweight champion boxer
who suffers from Parkinsons disease
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Martin Luther King Jr Outspoken opponent of racial segregation
who died for his views
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Steven Speilberg. Film director who from childhood developed
a dream of making his own films
Plus
- anyone in the front line of public services who witnesses
trauma or suffers abuse and gets on with it.
Outstanding
again…
Congratulations
to all those schools whose hard work was recognised in
the publication of OFSTED’s Outstanding Schools
list.*
Particular
congratulations to all those schools with whom Alite has
worked over the years – we counted nine in total
– and to those which have been described as outstanding
on more than one occasion. Gable Hall School in Stanford-le-Hope,
Essex, is one of the seven schools to be mentioned as
outstanding a third time. Saint John the Baptist has been
mentioned twice.
Gable
Hall Head teacher, John King, comments that improving
children's self-esteem was vital for success: "The
area that we are in is pretty socially deprived. The key
part
of our job is raising children's aspirations. You have
to show the children what's there to achieve and show
them how to get through and support them." The school's
14-year-olds choose one of three "pathways"
- vocational, technical or academic - which can be combined.
The children should be involved at every stage in the
running of their school.
They have to become engaged."
We
feel particularly chuffed because both schools feature
heavily in Close Up: Accelerated Learning in Secondary
Schools the Alite DVD of good practice which we recently
released. We cover five lessons - each with teacher analysis
- and leadership interviews from the two schools.
For
full details, please email hilary@alite.co.uk,
or visit
the alite website.
*
…and congratulations to all those schools who work
hard and don’t get on any lists! – ed
..and
congratulations Mr T!
More
congratulations due to Chris Tomlinson, aka ‘the
Jamie Oliver of Maths’. Chris has recently been
promoted to become Head Teacher at Chafford Hundred Campus
in Essex.
INSET
If
you’d like to find out more about:
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Starting out with Accelerated Learning - our one day
introduction to AL
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Alps – the 3 day programme for primary schools
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ALiSS - the 3 day programme for secondary schools
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Alite for Numeracy – an inspiring day with ‘the
Jamie Oliver of Maths’!
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How to Reach the Hard to Teach – AL approaches
to deal with challenging behaviour
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Creative Classrooms – unlocking the creative potential
of children through music, movement, images and words
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Coaching for Performance - develop one to one coaching
skills.
Please
call Hilary on 01628 810700 x 20, email hilary@alite.co.uk
for details, or visit www.alite.co.uk
Events,
courses and conferences
If you’d
like to find out more about any of our open events, including:
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Starting out with Accelerated Learning
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Moving on with Accelerated Learning
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Learning to Learn
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How to Create an Accelerated Learning Primary School
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Alite for Numeracy
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How to Reach the Hard to Teach
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Creative Classrooms
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Coaching for Performance
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Alite 2005: Personalising Learning
Please
call Debbie or Grace on 01628 810700 x 24, email events@alite.co.uk
for details, or visit www.alite.co.uk
School
Improvement Programme
For
collaborative projects aiming to tranform Teaching and
Learning in LEAs, Excellence Clusters, NLCs and other
groups of schools, please call Melanie on 01628 810700
x22 or email Melanie@alite.co.uk
or visit
the alite website.
Alite
2005: Personalising Learning
This
year’s annual conference, ‘Personalising Learning:
Creative approaches will again be held in the prestigious
surroundings of the Café Royal, London on 24th
June 2005.
To
register for the conference, please email events@alite.co.uk
or visit the website at www.alite.co.uk